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Aimee Raupp:
Hi, everyone. How are you? I get to come to you live twice today. I'm super excited about that. I am going to bring you some education in this live on the topic of spirit babies. Have you guys heard about this topic. Are you interested in learning more about spirit babies and what that actually means and how it can help you on your fertility journey. Ellie, how are you? I'm super excited to be bringing on a guest day for this live. Nancy Mae. She's the author of this book, The Energetic Fertility Method and she herself studied with Walter Mckitchen who wrote the original Spirit Babies book.
Aimee Raupp:
Love Nancy, her and I have a very nice friendship and thought it would be fun to come live and chit chat with you guys about spirit babies. Let me see. Nancy, have you joined yet? Do we see Nancy anywhere here? Once Nancy joins, I will bring her on. “Love both books.” I know I do too. I love both the books. I'm just waiting for Nancy to get on. Here's Nancy. I won't even give you the backstory. Nancy, “View request, go live.” Let's do this. Here we go. Hi?
Nancy Mae:
Hi there. It's great to see you.
Aimee Raupp:
You too. How are you?
Nancy Mae:
I am great. How are you?
Aimee Raupp:
I am doing really well, thank you. Feeling good. I was showing everybody your beautiful book.
Nancy Mae:
Beautiful, thank you.
Aimee Raupp:
You're welcome. People are already commenting like, “Love that book. Had a Spirit Baby reading with Nancy last year. Love Nancy.” So good. I know and Nancy has something special she wants to gift to you guys. Keep watching and then I'll also post links and you'll share information too. So you guys stay tuned for that. Let's get into it. I would like you to intro yourself to everyone because I'm sure there's people on here that you're brand new to so let's… Are you frozen or no?
Nancy Mae:
Oh, I'm here.
Aimee Raupp:
Oh no, she's just sitting so perfectly still and calm. I want to take these things away from your face. I can't see your face because there's all like the posts, but that's okay. Anyway, why don't you go ahead. Start tell us about you Nancy and how you got into this work and all the things.
Nancy Mae:
My background really is in social science research and I always thought I'd be a professor writing grants, doing research and then lo and behold, a few things happened in my life that definitely shifted my trajectory. And one was, I was a passenger in a car accident and Western medicine was not able to help me in the ways that they had been for so many others. And I've seek some alternative therapies, acupuncture, cranial psychotherapy. Then I was introduced… This was many years ago to Jon. Kabat-Zinn's work. Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction. And that was kind of my foray into this world. And then fast forward a few more years and I had my own fertility journey. I was not able to get pregnant and thank goodness for my acupuncturist who said, “Are you open to an alternative way of looking at fertility?”
Nancy Mae:
I said, “Absolutely.” And she introduced me to Walter Mckitchen. That was many, many years ago and it was my work with Walter Mckitchen who wrote the book Spirit Babies that really opened my eyes to so many things that just made sense. My Western trained analytical brain just was questioning lots of things. However, there was such a deep truth in my work with Walter Mckitchen and working with my own spirit babies. And it was not an easy journey. I remember Walter saying a lot of things to me. I literally chanted two to three hours a day, seven days a week for months and months and months and months and months and months. It was a lot of beautiful work and I worked with Walter for five years, and that was before-
Aimee Raupp:
Like as a client before you like mentored?
Nancy Mae:
It was before I had my child and then during that process and then afterwards, and I just kept working with him for that five year period. And then he passed.
Aimee Raupp:
Yeah.
Nancy Mae:
Then from that period on, I've been doing this work professionally since 2011, when he passed pretty much a year ago now. Right now it was in the early part of right around this time of the year in 2011 that he passed.
Aimee Raupp:
So 10 years ago. Yeah, wow. Because I know people are always asking like, “Oh, can I still work with Walter?” I'm like, “Well, but you can the next best thing is Nancy.”
Nancy Mae:
Well, and the interesting thing… This definitely gets out there, woo, woo, if you will. I still work with Walter. He comes in sessions and it's really phenomenal and I'm really excited because I have some new people on my team. You don't even know this yet, Aimee.
Nancy Mae:
Well, everyone on my team's very intuitive and it's just fun to work with all these sorts of people and there's one person in particular and he and I were having a conversation recently just in the last week and he's like, “Walter McKitchen came to me and he was talking to me about spirit babies.” It's just really fun to have Walter around and to really be able to carry on his work in my own unique way. I definitely work differently than Walter. I have a very different personality than he did. But it's the same premise to bring these beautiful souls to these families that are really interested in growing.
Aimee Raupp:
How does the Spirit Baby… How does that connection work? Or how would you describe it if someone was like what is spirit babies? Like, I have no idea. What are you talking about?
Nancy Mae:
I'm going to talk about it from my world view and my world view is, I truly believe we have more than one lifetime. I just feel like it's really a challenge to be here and go through everything that we go through, all these lessons and just doesn't make sense to me to have just one lifetime. I really feel like our essence, our soul never dies. Our physical body, yes, it shifts and changes. There are two things that every single one of us on this call have in common, we are born and we die. The two things in particular. I'm connecting with the essence. So these souls, these spirits that want to come in that want to incarnate into a new body and be parts of families here on the planet right now. I have this ability to… It's like tuning a radio to a particular station in the olden days when we actually used the dials or changing a channel on the TV to get to a certain frequency, that's what I'm doing when I'm connecting with the spirit babies.
Aimee Raupp:
Yes. Then they give you clues as to how to help this family shift, to receive the child. Is that how you would describe it?
Nancy Mae:
This is a really good question and I want to put a little bit of information out there in the sense that there's a lot of different types of spirit babies.
Nancy Mae:
And I tend to work with one element of the Spirit Baby world. It tends to be these babies who I consider higher vibration, babies that want to come in and help shift the planet in their own ways. And that may be just because of the vibration they hold. It may be, they're going to be activists. Maybe they're going to be doing the Spirit Baby work too. I don't know for sure. But I also want to say there are lots of other kind of spirit babies. There are what I call opportunistic spirit babies who just want to come in and have another lifetime just to have experiences.
Aimee Raupp:
Seize an opportunity.
Nancy Mae:
Yes. The spirit babies I work with are looking for parents who can hold higher vibrations. Meaning that they have more awareness. They're more mindful and we're not looking for perfection in any way. We're just looking for progress. So parents-
Aimee Raupp:
Or like the opportunity to shift and change like discovery.
Nancy Mae:
… 100%, if these spirit babies were looking for perfection, I never would've had children and I don't think anyone would've. But it's really about grounding, being more in your body, doing some of a lot what I work with people on, is the emotional, mental, and spiritual realms of things. Because we, at least in my journey and the people that I tend to work with, we're very action oriented. Okay, “If I did that step. I talked to that person. I did that to wake them-“
Aimee Raupp:
Check that box, like very masculine.
Nancy Mae:
… The work that I do that I really help people to delve deeply in, is that internal work. And that's what I learned so much from Walter McKitchen, that if we don't do more internal work and look at those emotional, mental and spiritual aspects of things, those action oriented steps that we take, might not work.
Aimee Raupp:
Well, they're not fully connected. Would you say this internal work is the divine feminine? That level of intuition and accessing like our deeper powers, I suppose?
Nancy Mae:
Absolutely. Because we're constantly getting messages and the thing is we don't listen to them.
Aimee Raupp:
I know.
Nancy Mae:
That's because we've been trained to look for everything outside of ourselves. And that's part of why I do the work I do so that we can relearn how-
Aimee Raupp:
Come back home.
Nancy Mae:
… Yes, exactly. Because every single family I've ever worked with, ever, there's always been a Spirit Baby or we can call one in. There's never been a situation where like, “No. No spirit babies can never come in.” I have never seen that in the 11 years I've been doing this work.
Aimee Raupp:
Wow. That's beautiful to know too. That's how I look at it. If you have a desire for a child, I believe there's a child that's eager to come through. That type of approach, it's not so black and white of, “Who has to do what?” There're steps to follow. But there is this one important piece that is like… I say coming home. That's kind of how I feel about it. Of just like you nourishing you on all the levels and listening to what your body needs and how to create the space in your life for that child to comes through. Whether that's, nutritionally and physically or spiritually, emotionally, usually all of the above though.
Nancy Mae:
I agree and one thing I will say is… Well, there's many things I could say here. Where I find most people get tripped up, is that they really don't take the time to listen and they second guess their intuition and that's one of the cool things about me being able to work with people especially over time, is I can help them to be able to see that they are actually getting intuitive messages and how to build the confidence around listening to themselves and the signs are… The way the spirit babies speak to us. It's not like a conversation you and I are having right now, Amy.
Nancy Mae:
It's not at all. It's through these synchronicities. It might be through like a felt sense, a tingling in your body. It might be a warmth somewhere in your body. It may be like feeling someone's right next to you. It may be through song lyrics, poems. It might be through synchronicities, different emails that come through or things that people say, people that we know may have dreams about us and a baby. We may have dreams ourselves. There're so many ways that the spirit babies are creative in speaking to us. But when we're so busy looking out there and frantic about the next step, we miss those-
Aimee Raupp:
Or if we're scared, we're scared to have hope. I see that a lot too. The fear of hope because we've been so let down, it blocks it. Because it's like, “I'm crazy, I don't want to listen to that sign anymore or I can't even see it because I'm so in the plain aspect.”
Nancy Mae:
We don't to try and connect with our future child oftentimes when we're feeling like that, because of fear of what we consider rejection-
Aimee Raupp:
Let down.
Nancy Mae:
Exactly. One thing I would like to say is, in those situations, think about it from the spirit baby's point of view.
Aimee Raupp:
That little baby just wants to connect.
Nancy Mae:
Believe me I know it's much easier said than done. Yet, there are even when we can shift a little bit and be authentic with these spirit babies in our conversations, “I realize I'm so scared to connect with you. I don't even know if you're there, I'm scared to have another miscarriage or whatever it might be. I'm scared I'm going to get my period again this month.” At least letting them know where you're at and that it's not about them, but it's about you and your own fears. Even that sort of dialogue, can really help the spirit babies feel more confident and connected with you.
Aimee Raupp:
So it's just kind of opening up the lines of communication and just like you said, there's no perfect way to have a conversation with your spirit baby, but more just honestly communicating. Or even I could see it. Like, “I feel frustrated, I'm doing all these things and it's still not happening. What can I do to get you here faster? Guide me, I'll look for the signs.' That kind of thing. Can my deceased son come back to me, he passed when he was only one. I mean, I think I know your answer, but I wonder?
Nancy Mae:
That's a great question. That's a fabulous question and believe it or not, I do work with these situations quite often.
Aimee Raupp:
I'm sorry. You lost your baby that's so traumatic.
Nancy Mae:
There are lots of different possibilities in this sort of scenario. One is that, yes, that same soul can come back to you. And then another scenario is, perhaps that soul already came and that's what the purpose was to come in for that one year and for you to share that connection. There are now learnings on your side and potentially spirit baby's side as well. And that connection, this lifetime is done. And these are the things I look at when I'm working with people. I can't say, “Yes or no one way or another.” There's also other possibilities. Maybe that particular spirit will come as a grandchild or in another way as part of your extended family. So there's lots of possibilities.
Aimee Raupp:
And explain how you do work with people because you did at one point do one-on-one readings, but not so much anymore and tell them about what you want to gift everyone here today too.
Nancy Mae:
Absolutely. So what I have found is that doing the one-on-one spirit baby readings, people want me to fix them. People want me to give them the answers. And what I have found is that is not the way the spirit babies are going to come in most easily. I work with people in an eight week format. So it's short, it's definitely. It's jam packed. It's very transformative. In the eight week program, it's called The Energetic Fertility Method Program.
Aimee Raupp:
Based on your book.
Nancy Mae:
Yeah. Based on my book.
Aimee Raupp:
The things you have learned since writing the book too. That's what I like the most-
Nancy Mae:
Absolutley.
Aimee Raupp:
… that it's transforming-
Nancy Mae:
That's the beauty of working with me now compared to just like reading the book. That was published in 2016. I keep doing my own work and I keep transforming. So I can give you the most up to date inspiration and tools that I have. But the program does include one Spirit baby reading. It also includes weekly Q&A calls with me and a small group of women. It's also me holding the space for you 24 hours a day, seven days a week for the entire eight weeks. And I will say, that to me is one of the most transformative things about the program. Because you are held in a loving space and if you have ever been to, it could be a psychotherapist, it could be an acupuncturist or a healer, or even a medical doctor who just knows how to listen and hold this loving space.
Nancy Mae:
You have whole physical body relaxes. You are able to let go of things more easily. And that's a big part of the beauty of the eight week program. So what I would love to do for your community, Aimee and anyone listening is offer you a very special opportunity. To come through a complimentary fertility impact session with me and my team, and this is anytime between now and April 20th and they're 30 minutes. Anyone who comes through these fertility impact sessions, you'll learn more about the program and how we can help you the best. I am not a cookie cutter type of practitioner. I'm really here to help fine tune things, so that you can most easily let go of these energetic blocks that could be blocking your family from coming to fruition. Anyone who signs up for fertility impact session between now April 20th-
Aimee Raupp:
That's like a whole month.
Nancy Mae:
… and completes a whole month has… And completes the fertility impact session and you let us know. We always ask a question. How did you find out about Nancy? So you just let us know that you heard about this and I'm going to give you the opportunity to join me on a special live Spirit Baby meditation. It's going to be about an hour long and we'll have a conversation as well, but I will teach you ways to help you connect more deeply with yourself and your future child.
Aimee Raupp:
I love this. So what's the link. I'll put it in that copy when I post the story too. But tell me what the link is?
Nancy Mae:
What you can do, you can go to my bio and sign up there. It's called The Fertility Impact Session and then also on my website. So nancymae.com N-A-N-C-Y-M-A-E.com. You can sign up there and if you go under “Work with me” you'll see the opportunity to schedule a fertility impact session.
Aimee Raupp:
All right. I just posted it too and let me pin that.
Nancy Mae:
Oh, beautiful. Thank you.
Aimee Raupp:
I love that. That's an amazing offering and I feel like you guys should all take part of it and I have access to your course too and have done, there's meditations. It's so lovely. What I like is, it's simple and it's not an overwhelming amount of work. It's pretty, you can get it done quickly, but then it also stays with you throughout the day. You know where you're thinking about sayings and doing the meditation and yeah, I appreciate that part.
Nancy Mae:
The biggest way to make changes is to be able to implement things into your life. So I don't want you to have to add in two hours or three hours a day. I'm so much more about bite size pieces.
Nancy Mae:
If even at the bottom end of things, we can all add two minutes in the morning and two minutes in the evening, like brushing our teeth and so that's the way I like to start with people, especially if they're like, “Oh, how do I fit this in?” And the more that you can curve out that time, the more you're going to see the transformation.
Aimee Raupp:
Well, and that's it too, the more open and you are and connected. You and I were having a conversation the other day and talking about… It was something that came up for me personally and… Nancy and I have our own relationship outside of here. And you had said to me, it doesn't always do this, but you were like, “I sense, there's like something going on.” It was like that day that I was getting a little harassed on social media, by these certain people. And you made this recommendation to me that I love, and I've told my team about it. I'm like doing it all the time now. You called it the invalidation exercise. Or something like that. Anytime you felt this… Explain it, because I know I'm not doing it justice.
Nancy Mae:
Oh, I love it. Yes. Invalidation exercise. And it's basically you imagine a huge magnet and like a science magnet. And I always for whatever reason I do things with my hands. You can see me move my hand. But I imagine it right above me. And then I too tune this magnet to pick up invalidation energy. And what I mean by that, are any judgements, whether they're verbal or non-verbal and that can happen from loved ones, from people over social media, from over email, from co-workers you name it. So you pick up this invalidation energy with the magnet and I'll go through my physical body and my energetic field. Some people call it the Aura or the energy field. And then I use this magnet through my entire home too, to pick up these judgments. They might be belief systems, cultural dictates, familial dictates, these old messages that just don't feel good.
Aimee Raupp:
These old belief systems.
Nancy Mae:
Exactly. And then, because this makes me laugh. When I'm done with the magnet, I will throw it into the cosmic toilet and just flush it. “All right, you can take care of this for me” or you can ground it and give it to mother earth or throw it into a rushing river of image. Imagine a beautiful rushing of-
Aimee Raupp:
When we said too, I was like with the vision that came to me was like a jar. And I actually was writing them down and we were joking. I'm like, “I'm going to put a magnet in the…” Like a real actual magnet in the jar. And then writing down these burdensome judgements and belief systems and then burning them at some point. There was a real act of… I actually didn't even start the jar. I'm just visualizing them and just almost saying like that doesn't serve me in giving it to the magnet. You know what I mean? Like doesn't serve me and staying more and forgiveness you had given like some forgiveness recommendations and exercises, which I was doing like so religiously for a while my forgiveness, prayer, I kind of forgot about it.
Aimee Raupp:
And so now I'm back to it and I'm really loving that. I think it really helps on that self-compassion piece. And then also the choice to let these beliefs dictate our behaviors and dictate our life versus the choice to say, “These don't serve me. How is this helping me move towards my goal?” That's a huge part of… I talk about that in body belief of like reconnecting to ourselves is like the first step, is just listening to the conversation we're having. And so you don't notice these invalidations unless you actually start to pay attention and listening. And then in the listening, I think that's when you can open to receive more.
Nancy Mae:
Absolutely. If we don't have that awareness, we can't change anything.
Aimee Raupp:
We can't.
Nancy Mae:
Once you slow down, it is utterly amazing to listen to yourself that critical judge in us, I know they've done so much research on this with the help. We have tens of thousands of thoughts a day and usually about 90-
Aimee Raupp:
90% of them are the same. That's what they say, 50,000 thoughts a day, 90% of them are the same.
Nancy Mae:
… 80% of those tend to be negative.
Aimee Raupp:
Shity thoughts.
Nancy Mae:
One of the things that I love to recommend for everyone is, really at least one time per day at the minimum stop and say something kind to yourself.
Aimee Raupp:
Yeah.
Nancy Mae:
And I give myself a hug. That's how I wake up every morning. I give myself a beautiful hug and I do it throughout the day. When I look into a mirror, I will say something kind myself because what happens when we look in the mirror?
Aimee Raupp:
We're like, “Your hair looks like this, your skin looks like that.”
Nancy Mae:
Judgment after judgment. We're so conditioned to look for what's wrong. So my way of working with people is really to remind them there's always something going right.
Aimee Raupp:
100% I love that. So we're going to tell everybody, go to your website, go to Nancy Bae's website. You could also check out her book. There's some great tools that you can start doing all on your own there. But if you go to her website, nancymae.com and sign up for the fertility impact session, then you're going to invite them to be a part of this live Spirit Baby reading. And you just mentioned that you found this session through… Sorry, my battery… Just mentioned that you found fertility impact session through this live, and then you can be on your journey to work with Nancy. I love it.
Nancy Mae:
Absolutely and it is such an honor to work with each and every person I've ever worked with. I feel so fortunate to be able to do this work as I know you do too. To search a beautiful way to be in service. And for me personally, help these spirit babies come into these amazing families.
Aimee Raupp:
I think you and I have the same approach, but it's not about the positive pregnancy test. It's really about helping this woman step into her power in all her capacities and then be the mother that this child needs. And if you're in a partnership, be the partner in that partnership and your space in the world. But it's so much more than just getting pregnant. It's really about this moving the world forward energetically and leveling us up too spiritually.
Nancy Mae:
I 100% agree with that. That's why I do this work.
Aimee Raupp:
Me too.
Nancy Mae:
To be honest.
Aimee Raupp:
Yeah. Same. It's beautiful to see the transformations. It's like the best. It's like my crack.
Nancy Mae:
Well it is. Actually someone on my team, she just birthed her second child through our work together just this weekend. And I remember she sent us pictures yesterday and I like even talking about it. I'm getting tears in my eyes. This is why I do this work, is to see these miraculous stories and transformations. And she had a stillbirth and that's how she found me a few years back. And then, like I said, she's birthed two beautiful children since our work together.
Aimee Raupp:
Amazing. And you too, the work worked for you, which I think is just a beautiful thing. You had your challenges and you got your baby and it was through this work.
Nancy Mae:
It was my journey. I talk a lot about it in my book. And I talk about it in various podcasts and things of that nature. It was not an easy journey and I remember Walter McKitchen even saying, “This is unusual.” And he also said, “You've had so much experience working with spirit babies. You can have fun doing this.” And I loved that. I loved when he said that.
Aimee Raupp:
That's so sweet. So special. All right. So I hope you guys enjoyed this. Nancy and I are going to try and do more of these too, because I love this, just like opening up the conversation and whether or not you're ready to like jump in and do spirit baby work or you've already done it. It's just nice to entertain this other piece to the puzzle, that it's not all on you and it's not all this pressure, that you have to do these things. That you're in a relationship with a child that wants to come through and it's you and them figuring out how to best make that work. And I don't know, personally to me it takes a lot of pressure off because it's not just when you ovulate and nailing the timing and then making sure you're getting all your vegetables in. It's magic. There's this magical creation that's happening and a magical relationship that is there and budding and for you to give it attention as well to help that.
Nancy Mae:
I completely agree. And I love the way you just talked about that, because it's a co-creative process. That's how I like to talk about it. It is not just you in this silo, just here doing your work. It's when you can look at this from a co-creative way of working, it's so much more fruitful to be able to bring your family a fruition together as quickly as possible.
Aimee Raupp:
I love that. Okay, well thank you so much and thanks to everybody for tuning in. I'll post in the copy as well where to go for this fertility impact session. So you guys go and make sure you sign up for that. And then Nancy, make sure you mention that you found it through this live and then she'll invite you to that live Spirit Baby meditation and reading. I love it.
Nancy Mae:
Beautiful. Thank you so much, Aimee. It is it always so fun to have these conversations.
Aimee Raupp:
I love it.
Nancy Mae:
Thanks to everyone for joining.
Aimee Raupp:
Thank you.
Nancy Mae:
I really hope everyone-
Aimee Raupp:
Thank you all. I'll talk to you later Nancy.
Nancy Mae:
Bye for now.
Aimee Raupp:
Bye everyone.
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